Love.. Love .. Love~

Love is something you don’t have to understand to be good at yet it’s so complicated. Sometimes it can be mistaken with other feelings, like having a crush, liking, or familiarity.

If you ask me, what is my definition of love, I wouldn’t know exactly what it is, but I’d sure tell you that “it’s something you give, you don’t offer and once it was really given, you can’t take it back again” . Never add conditions, for when you do, you are putting  a reason to hate them one day. It’s like saying ” I love you on one condition!” And then one day, that condition was broken for whatever reason and now you’re standing there looking at them while being shocked, too shocked that you can’t speak and then you take a deep breath and say ” Alright, I don’t love you anymore, pack your stuff and get outta here”

*crickets chirping* …. Weird!

Oh well, there are seven states of love, I’m sure you would like to read about:

Storge: Natural affection, the love you share with your family.

Philia: The love that you have for friends.

Eros: Sexual and erotic desire kind of love. (positive or negative)

Agape: Unconditional love, or divine love

Ludus: playful love, like childish love or flirting.

Progma: Long standing love. The love in a married couple for example.

Philautia: Love of the self. (negative or positive)

Can you recognize any of those? If you do, start giving them their proper names and make sure when you really love someone no matter what relation you have with them to love them from the deepest part of your heart while you still can and never be ashamed to show it.

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From the top of my head

Every time the gulls flied around the River,It’s like a silent music were played in a beautiful hidden song by nature..

The beautiful birds flied in circles above the river,trying to catch a fish or playing together

Today I looked,there was no gulls..all gone

It was sad scene..I miss those gulls and how they made me feel

I really feel pathetic for this world..full of people that aren’t like gulls…fighting and fighting without understanding and always the wrong person is punished…What’s going on?? why can’t we just accept each others the way we are?? why wars,pains and killing?? why some people feel happy that others was killed just because they belong to a different religion or race!!

We are all the same! colors doesn’t change that,religions doesn’t change that..we are all human beings..what we believe is between us and God or to ourselves..you don’t have to hurt anyone for that!! If you are asked then answer but don’t force anyone to do anything they don’t want to do…don’t distort a whole religion just for thoughts only you made up using the ignorance of others!

WHY,WORLD? WHY??

Why do we hate each others like this?? Can’t we just respect the difference and live in peace?

Can’t we just breath for a new day,for the love of God!!!

Can’t we just know the difference between bad people and good people away from whatever they belong to?? YES,Because if we have to Classify this world we will classify it for two sides.

Good people and Bad people..Never ever punish a good person just because they belong to something a bad person claimed they follow..because you don’t know,maybe that good person is your hope to survive.

You should study people and let their acts speak for them..then decide,who should be punished and for what reason.

I’m tired,really tired of how people act and speak…and innocents are the only one who pay for it.

Problems..problems..problems (Introdution Letter)

Problems!

Which one of us never faced them? and when we talk about them we end up always hearing the words of sympathy which we actually hate to hear.

What do we want to hear then? ..Is it something we want to hear or it’s something we want to feel?

Comforting words is a matter of time before we feel bad again.So what’s the point then?

We need ears to listen,hands to hold and a heart that shares…that’s what we need.Some people can be heard because their voices are loud,others just hide behind their shyness and what might other people say about it.

In my opinion,If you have a problem it’s better to talk about it,if you want it to be fixed or it will never get fixed and you will keep feeling bad.But then again,I know that those shy people will never listen to this…and that’s why I decided to see problems,write about them and try to find solutions..not to share people suffers but to try to find a solution together for it and to make people understand each others feelings more.

Use the power of human in you to heal the world

If only the world becomes more understanding!